How to Avoid Houseplant Heartbreak

By Morgan McClary

In the world of houseplants, a box of chocolates and an “I’m sorry” will not repair the damage that can be done to your oxygen-producing companions by a lack of love and care. Plants seem complicated, but they don’t have to be. Asking questions and doing a little research can go a long way to avoid houseplant heartbreak.

Before heading to the greenhouse, take an inventory of your home. Determine where you would like plants, then estimate the brightness and length of sunlight these areas receive each day. Next consider the level of humidity and, finally, the amount of time you are willing to dedicate to plant care. Once you’ve gathered this information, it’s time for the best part: plant shopping!


Greenhouse staff are typically very knowledgeable and willing to guide you on your houseplant journey. Faddegon’s Nursery in Latham is one of my favorite places to explore. Their selection is incredible. The grounds are breathtaking. And their employees will surely point you in the right direction — especially if you’ve come ready with the information you’ve gleaned from your home environment and your own time commitment. Faddegon’s website also has care guides to which you can easily refer. But in case you’d like a little armchair advice to get started, here’s what I know that is important to your success:

1. Choosing the Right Plants: Think back to the conditions of your home or the space you’d like to grow your plants. What did you determine regarding light levels, humidity, and time commitment?

2. Lighting, Lighting, Lighting: Proper lighting is key to healthy plants. Most fall into three categories:

  • Low Light: Ideal for plants requiring minimal natural light. Examples include Pothos and ZZ plants.
  • Medium Light: String of Turtles and Calatheas thrive in bright, indirect light.
  • Bright Light: Succulents, cacti and most variegated houseplants shine in bright direct sunlight.

3. Watering: Overwatering is definitely a plant faux pas. The frequency and amount of water depend on the type of plant, its size, and the environmental conditions. Here are two general guidelines:

  • Check the Soil: Before watering, check the top inch of soil. If it's dry, it's time to water. You can’t water too much, as long as your pot has drainage, but you can water too frequently. I water my plants until the soil is completely saturated and running out the bottom of the pot.
  • Consistency is Key: Establish a consistent watering schedule, but be flexible. Adjust based on seasonal changes and the plant's specific needs.

4. Humidity: Most houseplants prefer higher humidity levels. As a rule of thumb, try to maintain above 50 percent relative humidity in the area your plants will be located. You can find an inexpensive, quality, hygrometer/ thermometer at Faddegon’s or online.

Tips to Increase Humidity:

  • Grouping Plants: Place plants together to create a microenvironment with increased humidity.
  • Misting: Lightly mist the leaves, especially during drier seasons.
  • Humidifiers: Invest in a humidifier, particularly if you live in a dry climate.

No one likes a broken heart. But, if you’re willing to follow these guidelines, ask questions, and adjust accordingly, you're bound to keep yours intact. Keep in mind, all guidelines are just that -- guidelines. Be willing to experiment and try again even if you do lose a few of your botanical buds along the way. You need to “beleaf in yourself”.

Want to meet other houseplant enthusiasts and get more advice? Come to the Landis Arboretum Houseplant Swap on April 27, 11 AM. – 1 PM. See our website (https://landisarboretum.org/ev...) for details.

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Spring 2024

Volume 42 , Number 1

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